Monday, January 12, 2009

Avoiding A Love Break Up





Avoiding A Love Break Up




Avoiding A Love Break Up



If you’ve ever had your love break up you know how painful it is. And if you
thought back after the relationship ended, you probably saw all the signs that
you didn’t recognize before. If you’ll remember those signs and keep them in
mind, they can help you prevent a break up in the future. And they can also help
you get back together after a split.



One sure sign of impending love break up is the lack of physical contact. This
doesn’t just mean sex. If your partner suddenly stops having an interest in sex,
that’s a good sign that a break up is coming. But the normal flow and rhythm of
a relationship has times when there’s lots of sex and times when there’s not
much. This is natural.



A love break up is probably on the horizon though, if your partner stops holding
your hand for no apparent reason. Or he or she stops putting an arm over your
shoulder at the movies or in public when he or she always did it before. Any
sudden changes like not touching you much outside the bedroom when your partner
was always very affectionate before could signal problems.



If it goes beyond not touching to the person actually becoming uncomfortable at
your touch, then you definitely need to have a conversation with your partner
about what’s going on. Don’t just assume that because your partner flinched away
from your touch that there’s about to be a love break up, though. Many things
can cause a person to not want to be touched at any given moment.



A person might have been thinking of something else and been surprised or
startled by the touch. He or she might think that your touch signals that it’s
time to have sex, if you’re not very affectionate except when you want to be
intimate. And maybe your partner isn’t in the mood for sex now and chose to show
you that by moving away from your touch. That doesn’t mean you’re headed for a
love break up.



Your partner might simply not feel good. Every change in a person’s behavior
doesn’t signal an impending love break up or even anything wrong with the
relationship. You have to watch them closely for a while to determine if some
behavior is an occasional thing, something brought on only during certain times,
or if it’s a permanent part of the person’s make up.



Catching your partner in lies, even what seem like small and harmless ones,
could be a sign of problems, too. After all, if a lie is small and harmless, why
tell it in the first place? Where there’s one tiny lie, larger and more damaging
lies can grow. Don’t become convinced it’s a love break up right away though.
People lie about many things that aren’t bad, like surprise parties and
reunions. Your partner might be trying to keep a harmless and fun secret like
that, instead of scheming about a love break up.






Liz Johnson is the owner of Magicof-MakingUp.com and the author of several
articles concerning the many relationship problems faced by couples everyday.
All relationships face difficulties but most can and should be saved if you use
proved methods for relationship
building
. To learn more techniques and tactics for building a healthy
relationship visit =>

http://www.Magicof-MakingUp.com

 


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